Parents Wish

Last Wish of our parents

Dear Child,

On the day when you see us old, weak and weary, have patience and do try to understand us.

If we get dirty when eating and when we can not dress on our own, please bear with us and remember the times we spent feeding you and dressing you up.

If, when we speak to you and repeat the same things over and over again, don’t interrupt us. Please listen to us. When you were small we had to read the same story a thousand and one time until you went to sleep.

When we do not want to have a shower, neither shame us neither scold us. Remember when we had to chase you with your thousand excuses to get you to the shower.

When you see our ignorance of new technologies, help us navigate our way through these world wide webs. We taught you how to do so many things, to eat the right food, to dress appropriately, to fight for your rights etc.

When at some moments we loose the memory or the thread of our conversation, let us have the necessary time to remember and if we can not, do not become nervous as the most important thing is not our conversation but simply to be with you and to have you listening to us.

If ever we do not feel like eating, do not force us. We know well when we need to and when not to eat.

When our legs get tired, give away and do not allow us to walk without a cane. Lend us your helping hand the same way we did when you tried your first faltering steps.

And when someday we say to you that we don’t want to live anymore, that we want to die; do not get angry for one day you will understand. try to appreciate that our age is not just lived but survived.

Someday you will realize that despite our mistakes, we always wanted the best for you and we tried to prepare the way for you.

You must not feel sad, angry or ashamed for having us near you. Instead, try to understand us and help us like we did when you were young.

Help us to walk, help us to live the rest of our life with love and dignity. We will pay you with smile and by the immense love we have always had for you in our hearts.

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